Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday because:
– It is about being grateful.
– You spend the time with the people who are the most important to you whether they are family or friends.
– It is a celebration of the harvest, or the good things that have come to you in the previous year.
– I do love good food and wine!
Gratitude is something that I regularly practice. I say practice because it isn’t always easy to be grateful for a lost job, ending relationship, death of a loved one, et cetera. But with every situation in our lives no matter how challenging and difficult, there comes the opportunity for learning, success and growth. This is not always obvious and so often you can feel knocked down and that is the best time to practice remembering that like other ‘bad’ times this too will give birth to something better.
We don’t always know why things happen, but I have had many times in my past that I have felt hurt or resentful because of a given situation (not getting in to Colby for college, the lost of a good friend without reason.) Later in life I understood why those situations happened, some many times over, and was able to feel grateful for them because of what came next that would not have been possible otherwise.
Now in my life, I am grateful and open when something that seems challenging comes up. I realize that it may be quiting my job that allows for the space for my dream job to come into my life. I am more open to understanding that every situation has a silver lining or possibility attached to it.